Monthly Archives: August 2008

The Long answer for “Do you know how much you hurt me?”

It’s all about the meta-message. If you aren’t sure what a meta-message is, Deborah Tannen will explain it to you on the video. This question we addicts get asked reminds me in a way of when my children were little

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“Do you know how much you hurt me?”

  When a spouse asks this, what should we recovering addicts say? I don’t know about you, but I feel queasy just reading the question. It sucks. I caused this wound and there’s nothing I can do to make it

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To the Spouses

A few days ago, Sonia commented on one of my more popular posts, The Anatomy of a Relapse. It’s been a busy few days getting ready for back to school so I didn’t have the time to give her more

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Back to School

  I’m taking my daughter shopping tomorrow to get clothes for school.   Two years ago, one of my husband’s friends offered to take her shopping for back to school clothes. She helped my daughter choose her first bra. And

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Nice Art

A 6 minute youtube video that I liked. I think you will too.

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